Change itself is hard for an Aspie. But I have had such life altering things happen to me that sometimes when I would wake up I have to convince myself that those things really happened.
Unfortunately a true story. I was in a new school for a week. I was already being bullied by the students. So I doodled on my notes in class. Enough so that the teachers of my classes took it upon themselves to "teach me a lesson." They put me in a room and mocked my artwork. They threw away my art supplies, and they told me I would never do anything with it.
The best laid plans. I used to sit in my car before I went inside a place and plan out my conversations with the people inside. I didn't want to get caught off guard, but most of the time I was.
When telling someone who knows about a situation somewhat about how the situation has affected me, they somehow feel the need to distance themselves from the situation. It's as if they feel like I blame them personally.